Decisions

Life is about decisions, sometimes we make the right ones, sometimes we make the wrong ones, however we need to own them. I have a hard time even when I feel it is right making the tough decisions in my life. There are so many things bouncing around in my head. I sometimes prevent making some decisions because I feel unsure. I know though if I listen to my heart and if I feel I am waivering then I probably know truly what I need to do.

I have to make a few decisions in my life over the next 6 months. Some of them will be a big change, and I am still deciding what that change will be and where it will lead me. I feel pulled at this point in my life to make some moves that I have wanted to for years and have feared doing. I want to step outside of my box a bit and feel a little unsafe. I know that in the long run my decision will be the best for me. If it isn't then I will know sooner then later and at least I will have learned something from it.

Time for me to take smoe chances.

This will be

This will be the day that I smile for you
the day I have worked all week for
This will be the day I stay awhile with you
in case we do not have this chance tomorrow

This will be the day I make peace with myself
instead of letting it bring me down
This will be the day I value love more then wealth
knowing the things that really matter

This will be the day I dance for no reason
even when music is not playing
This will be the day I enjoy the change in season
even when I need to have a sweater handy

This will be the day I let go again
knowing it is all that I can do
This will be the day I let it begin
even knowing there are no garuntees

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TF

The sweetest Trip

Just breath, that is all we can do somedays. Today is a sad day. Paul Morrell is being waked this evening. A man who was an inspiration to all but mostly a loving father and husband. Cancer has taken so many lives that had so much more living to do. I know there is a reason for everything that happens in life. However this is the second person I know that has died of cancer with young children. His wife is one of the strongest women and I know she will get through this. It is never a good time to lose your best friend and partner in life. Nothing prepares you for it, even though you know it is coming. I pray that Tahni and her children feel the peace of God in there lives. That there journey now that Paul is gone will be filled with love and blessings. Paul, may you find peace in your forever home, the angels are truly rejoicing your arrival. We will miss you on this earth, but know that you have touched us all.

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After I wake up, he will make me stand next to Him,
and, in my flesh, I shall see God.
The One I shall see shall be for me,
the One I shall look upon will not be a stranger.
~ Job

Tuna Fish and BBQ Chips

..Have brightened my day...

Tough Decisions

“Stay committed to your decisions, but stay flexible in your approach.” - Tim Robbins
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But what is my decision. The act of getting there is what makes it a harder journey. I am not going to lie, I am wishy washy when making decisions, I used to be so impulsive that now I think I fear making a decision because I am not sure if after making it I will feel the way I thought I would. I know that does not really make complete sense. However I fear maknig the wrong choice that I am not making any at all. I am just in limbo. I sit here in turmoil knowing where I think I am leaning, but not liking that outcome and wishing that I could turn the clock back a bit and see where my head was weeks ago before all of this. I want to feel that again, but I know there is not going back in life, we can only go forward and make the best choices we can. That being said, what is the best choice for me right now? Is it to follow my gut here not fully knowing how I feel, or to stay in this indecision a little longer til I feel completely at peace with whatever choice I make.
Decision are alot harder when you know you chance hurting someone or mulitple people. However I do know I have to do what is best for me in the end. I need to find peace with it and move forward. I do think more time is needed for me to truly know where I am going here. I know in the end I will have to make a choice and stick to it, I need to not second guess myself and hope that I have done what is best for my life and where it is going. It is a scary place to be, but this is life. We have to make the tough choices and never look back, but learn from them all. I feel I have come a long way with acceptance in regards to my past and I have a positive outlook on my future.